Author: bstfleur


  • As I navigate the journey of adulthood with its myriad challenges and milestones, one recurring obstacle stands out: Impostor Syndrome. Defined by persistent feelings of self-doubt and inadequacy despite evidence of competence, Impostor Syndrome can undermine our confidence and hinder personal growth. In this post, I explore how embracing authenticity and navigating Impostor Syndrome can…

  • Iโ€™ve been following routines since high school, but when I look back, I realize it started much earlier. Technically, everyone has followed routines since they were kids. From waking up at a set time, brushing your teeth, and getting ready for school, our lives have always had a built-in structure guiding our actions. These early…

  • Itโ€™s still very early in the year, and itโ€™s far too soon to decide if 2025 will be a good or bad year. However, I will say the start has been kind to me. I hope that if I encounter challenges, Iโ€™ll power through and practice the resilience I worked hard to build last year.…

  • Life Lately: Locked in or Lockdown

    To all the โ€œlocked inโ€ peopleโ€ฆ shhhhhhhhhhhh. Please. Stop being so loud about it. Some of us have been locked in since January โ€” and honestly, even before that. At this point, Iโ€™m not trying to lock inanymore. Iโ€™m trying to lock down. And no, not like the government โ€” too soon? Maybe. But still accurate. Iโ€™m just…

  • Not Me | a bl series review

    Not me is a Thai BL series focusing on the political corruption and unrest in Thai, and showcasing the romance within a rebel group for the cause. It’s a complex plot.

  • Love in the Air Review | Thai BL

    This was my very first Asian BL series and honestly Iโ€™m so glad I started with this one. It was exactly what I was looking for, fun, dramatic, and full of just the right amount of emotional chaos. It pulled me in and made me want to explore more BL series after finishing it.

  • Music Review: NLE Choppa Rebrands as โ€œNLE the Greatโ€ โ€” A New Era Begins

    NLE Choppa has officially rebranded himself โ€” new name, new image, new energy. Now going byย NLE the Great, heโ€™s stepping into a more mature, reflective era. He dropped two new songs,ย โ€œKOโ€ย andย โ€œMessiah,โ€ย and Iโ€™ve got thoughts.

  • Hello November | A Monthly Reset

    The final stretch of the year always feels like controlled chaos, doesnโ€™t it? We have just two months left in 2025, and everyoneโ€™s scrambling; checking boxes, revisiting resolutions, and trying to squeeze meaning into the last few pages of the calendar. Honestly? I havenโ€™t even looked back at my list of goals for the year. But hereโ€™s…

  • Do you know that moment when you decided to take a break, without leaving primary responsibilities behind? This for example means still going to work and my home responsibilities are still conducted, but saying no to any church responsibilities that isn’t just attending church and attending every community event and helping everyone that asks. Realization…

  • The Break without the Breakdown

    Do you know that moment when you decided to take a break, without leaving primary responsibilities behind? This for example means still going to work and my home responsibilities are still conducted, but saying no to any church responsibilities that isn’t just attending church and attending every community event and helping everyone that asks.